How do I get a guy to kiss me softly and without there having to be tongues involved?

Most guys have to be told to kiss like this or they won't do it. One of the best ways to tell him is actually to show him. Begin telling him you want to playa game. This game has one very simple rule-he's not allowed to kiss you back for one full minute. During that minute, you're going to kiss him the way you like to be kissed. Then give him those gentle lip kisses. He should be able to learn from your example. Teach him by kissing him gently.

Lots of women have asked this question. In addition to the game, there are two other ways to get a guy to kiss you gently. One is easy, the other is rather dangerous.

The easy way is to wait for a time when you're not kissing. Use that opportunity to bring up the subject of kissing. Maybe you can do it when you see a couple kissing in public or on television or in the movies. Tell your boyfriend how you like to be kissed. If he listens to you, he may learn how to do it the way you like.

The second way, which is more dangerous, was developed by the renowned psychologist B. F. Skinner. It's called conditioning your boyfriend. This technique works on dogs and pigeons, so it should also work on your boyfriend because; after all, he's an animal, isn't he? You begin by telling him that you want gentle kisses. You also insist that during this particular date you're going to try an experiment. Neither of you is going to be allowed to progress any further than simple hugs, caresses, and lip kisses. No French kissing allowed. Then you tell him that as a reward for behaving as and doing what you request, you'll wear his favorite sexy outfit.

And here's why it's dangerous. Under these circumstances he's liable to want more than kisses. Which is why you have to really draw the line-kisses only, please? If you can get him to behave under these conditions, you'll both get something you dearly want. He'll get a visual show that should be enough to motivate any guy to do as you say. And you'll receive gentle, loving, tender kisses.

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